In the modern world, we are often surrounded by people we don’t relate to—colleagues at work, acquaintances we socialize with out of obligation, or even those we encounter in daily life. While we are all part of the holistic body of Gaia, the reality is that not all energies align, and trying to force relationships with people who don’t resonate with our frequency can drain us. That’s why finding your tribe is so essential. It’s about surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals who uplift you and share your values, beliefs, and goals.
Your network is your net worth, and that doesn’t just apply to financial gain. It’s also about spiritual and emotional wealth. The people you connect with have a direct impact on your well-being, and it’s crucial to be mindful of who you allow into your space. Just like the different cells in our bodies have distinct roles and belong in different parts of the body, the same applies to the communities we form. The heart isn’t supposed to be near the anus—literally and figuratively. This reflects the importance of surrounding yourself with people who truly align with your spirit and goals. Forcing connections with those who drain your energy disrupts your ability to thrive.
Tribe Life: Returning to the Old Ways
At Unmatrix, we believe that tribe life is the way forward. In the modern matrix of power, many people feel stuck in situations where they work and live with people they don’t relate to. They sacrifice their own peace and authenticity for the sake of fitting in or surviving in a system that doesn’t nourish their soul. The truth is, we aren’t meant to live this way. Our ancestors lived in tribes, surrounded by like-minded individuals who shared similar values, goals, and energies. Tribe life provided people with the support, community, and love that nourished them holistically.
When you surround yourself with people who get you, you’re not only feeding your soul, but you’re also protecting your inner chi—your life force energy. You’re creating an environment that supports your growth, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Your current chi is your currency, and just as you protect your finances, you must also protect your energy. Finding your tribe allows you to leverage your inner chi by connecting with those who generate more energy and inspire you to be the best version of yourself.
The Importance of Authentic Self-Expression
To find your tribe, you must be willing to express your authentic self. Many people, especially in the matrix of power, hide behind masks, trying to fit into roles that don’t align with who they truly are. This not only disconnects you from your tribe but also drains your energy as you continually suppress your true nature. By showing the world your authentic self—your passions, beliefs, and even your vulnerabilities—you signal to like-minded individuals that you are part of their tribe. Even if you’re an empath, let it be known. Your tribe will find you when you open yourself up to being seen.
But beware of casting pearls before swine. Not everyone will appreciate or respect your energy, and that’s okay. It’s important to discern who is truly part of your tribe and who may be draining your energy. We are not here to socialize endlessly with those who don’t uplift us. We are here to form meaningful connections that nurture our souls and help us grow.
Protecting and Uplifting Your Energy
When you spend time with someone, you should feel uplifted, not drained. Our tribe is meant to be our support system—people who help us elevate our frequency and maintain our high vibrations. Connecting with your tribe helps you stay aligned with your higher self and keeps you from being dragged down by lower frequencies. Your energy is your currency, and when you align with the right people, your energy multiplies, creating abundance in every aspect of your life.
Too often, people in the matrix feel stuck in a system where they must interact with those who don’t resonate with them. Whether it’s at work, in social circles, or even within families, the pressure to fit into spaces that don’t align with our energy leaves us feeling depleted. It’s essential to recognize when a relationship, situation, or environment is no longer serving you and to have the courage to step away and find your tribe.
When you find those who align with your frequency, you build connections that help you grow spiritually, emotionally, and even materially. These relationships provide mutual support, creating a flow of energy that benefits everyone involved. Your network truly becomes your net worth—but not just in terms of money. It’s about the wealth of energy, inspiration, and love that flows through your tribe.
Tips for Finding Your Tribe
- Be Authentic: Express your true self without fear. The right people will be drawn to you when you are unapologetically yourself.
- Listen to Your Energy: Pay attention to how you feel around different people. Do they uplift you or drain you? Spend more time with those who help you thrive.
- Follow Your Passion: Engage in activities and pursuits that resonate with your soul. You’ll naturally attract people with similar interests and values.
- Create Boundaries: Protect your energy. Not everyone deserves access to your inner chi. Surround yourself with those who respect and honor your energy.
- Leverage Connection: Once you find your tribe, invest in those relationships. Build each other up, create opportunities, and help one another grow.
At Unmatrix, we encourage a return to the old ways—finding your tribe, living authentically, and cultivating meaningful connections that support your soul’s growth. We are not meant to drain ourselves by engaging with people who don’t resonate with us. By aligning with like-minded individuals, we create a life of abundance, love, and high vibrational energy.
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